Daily Game Play
Having a very active toddler in the home definitely takes up most of our time from the moment she wakes up to the moment she is sound asleep at night. By committing to find a little bit of time to spend together and play a game helps keeps us moving forward as a couple.
Now I am not saying that it has been all fine and dandy each day because it hasn’t been. Some nights we barely make it through a single game and we play short and quick games such as Love Letter or Cartographers. When we do have the energy to play games that are longer, they usually take us well past midnight (I count it for the day we start playing, not the day we finish it) since we start late at night after we know our daughter is fast asleep.
I personally feel that playing a game together each day has brought us closer together and keeping our marriage fresh since we don’t go out and do the things we use to before having a child. If we are able to stay at home and enjoy some quiet time, we do. Our daily game play also occurs with other people as well such as when we have friends/family over or when we are at one of the parents’ homes we try to play a game with them each time we are there (it helps that we all live within a few minutes of each other).
Taking a move out of the television show Blue Bloods, most Sunday’s each month my family gathers at my parents’ house for a dinner. After we eat, we stick around to play a game together before returning to our individual homes. This has strengthened our family bond that had become weak after my sister and I graduated high school and moved away. Now, my sister comes over a few times a month to our house to play some games with us.
10 x 10 Challenge
Another way to challenge yourself is to do a 10 x 10 Challenge (or a 5 x 5 or whatever you want to challenge yourself with). What this challenge involves is simple, pick ten different games that you want to play ten times in the year.
My wife and I began our challenge at the beginning of the year and at the time of me writing this entry, we have completed just over 2/3rds of our challenge. What is really neat is that my mother also created a 10 x 10 Challenge and started at the beginning of the year as well. I believe that she still ahead of my wife and I in completion percentage.
Is there any specific rules guiding what games to play? The answer to that is no. You decide what specific games you want in the challenge to be. You can target different genres of games or mix things up with you favorites. I am thinking that next year I may also do a solo 10 x10 Challenge to challenge myself even more.
Weekly Game Challenge
Boardgametables.com publishes an annual weekly board game calendar that features pictures of different games each week, space to record your game plays, notes of things to remember, a full year calendar page, a 10 x 10 Challenge page, a “habit tracker” for marking off each day you played a game, and a different challenge for each week.
Of the 25 weeks (it goes Monday to Sunday) so far, we were able to complete 23 of the challenges. The challenge for the weeks we did not do was to “play Monopoly to remind you how much board games have evolved” and the other one we just forgot to do the challenge (play a game set on a different continent).
These weekly challenges not only engage us into mixing up what we play during the week so we are not playing Love Letter ten times each week, but also helps us to table games in our collection that we either haven’t played before or haven’t played in a long time.
Conclusion
Is it too late to start doing a daily game with your loved ones? Nope, you can always start and make the last half of the year great. July 1st is only the 182nd day of the year (making it the last day of the first half of the year)
Is it too late to start a 10 x 10 Challenge for this year? Again, the answer is no. With half the year still left you can still play a hundred games just by playing games four days a week. The key is to set a goal and aim for it; even if you don’t finish it, rest assure that you tried and can set another goal in the future. Life is about setting a goal and doing the best you can. If you don’t have to think about your goals, then you did not challenge yourself enough.
Can you do weekly challenges? Of course you can. What is neat about the one from our calendar is that we didn’t have to come up with what to do. You can easily look at your personal collection of games and come up with your own weekly challenges that can help you add variety into your game playing so that you are not laying tracks with Ticket to Ride each week.
If you set a goal in life, such as to eat healthier, and you find yourself still grabbing McDonald’s or Burger King each week when you know you shouldn’t, challenge yourself to do something different that can help you to break out of your rut. Mix things up and try something new; you never know if you are going to like it until you try it.
Good luck and remember to just have fun. Life is too short to take it seriously all the time. Happy Gaming!!!













